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7 WARNING SIGNS YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS HEADING TO THE DEAD END ROAD


Are you searching for the signs of a dead end relationship in the internet as a confirmation of what you are experiencing at the moment? 

If you stumbled upon this post, let me tell you, a couple of years ago, I was you. I was once in a happy relationship, but it wasn't a happy ever after, we hit the dead end road in our journey to eight years. And it made every waking moments of my life so hard! I went to work in a restaurant, providing customer experience with a heavy burden in my heart. Can you imagine that? But I told myself, when I overcome it, I'm gonna share it to the world so that no one would settle for that kind of relationship no matter how long that is. 

And here I am now, sharing the "7 Warning Signs Your Relationship is Heading to the Dead End Road" through my blog which means, I've overcome it! Woooh! Thanks be to God and to my friends who's been my support system in overcoming that struggle in my life. 

OK. Let's start our trip down memory lane... 

1. When your partner doesn't exert enough effort to make you feel special in as simple as fetching you in your workplace and initiating date nights. You're the one who always exert effort to see him and to spend quality time with him. And it makes you feel resentful instead. 

When your partner stop making effort along the way, it is a warning sign that your relationship is heading to the dead end road. 

Remember, to make the relationship work, it will take a lot of efforts from both partners. 

2. When you're not on the same page with your partner. One partner values marriage, the other one does not. One partner believes in God, the other one does not. One partner works full-time, the other one does not. 

When you're not on the same page with your partner, it is a warning sign that your relationship is heading to the dead end road. 

As partners, it is important that you are on the same page most especially in terms of values, beliefs and goals in life to make a harmonious journey into a long-lasting relationship. 

3. When you stop sharing the details of how's your day went, particularly the lowlights, the struggles you are currently facing whether in your family or in your career because you felt like your partner will never understand. So, you'll end up battling it all alone.

And that is a big red flag! When you can't openly share with your partner because you felt like he would never understand shows your relationship is stuck in a surface level. It's understandable on the early stage but if you've been together for so long, it is a warning sign that your relationship is heading to the dead end road.

Communication is the key foundation of any relationship. It is the way we connect with other people. When there is no communication, there will never be a connection.

4. When you stop nagging and start stonewalling. You just shut up or you say it's okay even if it's not. 

That is a big, big red flag! Bigger than number 3. Stonewalling shuts down the communication between the two of you, it makes the issues unresolved, and unresolved issues will build, build and build and then boom! Your relationship hit the dead end road.

Again, communication is the key foundation of any relationship. It is the way we connect with other people. This is just like internet. If you turned it off, you will lost the connection. 

5. When your relationship is toxic. A toxic relationship is poisonous to both of you. It will caused you feeling drain - emotionally, mentally and physically and it will contaminate your happiness. 

When your relationship is toxic, it is a warning sign that your relationship is heading to the dead end road. 

Release that toxic for a healthy life. You are partners, you are a team, you are suppose to build each other up, not to tear each other down. 

6. When you don't share future plans with each other. While it's good that you're living in the moment, still never forget where you're heading. Future or dead end road? 

When you don't share future plans with each other such as your dream wedding, dream house, chances are, you don't have one together. It is a sign that your relationship is heading to the dead end road. 

Our future is a blank slate. But our mind isn't. Share your dreams for the future and achieve it as a couple. 

7. When God is not the center of the relationship. 

When you don't share the same faith with your partner and God is not in the center, it is a sign that your relationship is heading to the dead end road. 

I am a believer. And I believe that God must be put in the center of every relationship. 


That's the warning signs your relationship is heading to the dead end road from my own experience. 


Have you seen those signs in your relationship? 

If your relationship is heading to the dead end road but you felt like there's something left to fight, hold on to that and turn around and find another way. 

But if you felt like there's nothing left to fight, get out and go on your own way. 

I know, i know that the thought of getting out of that relationship and going on your own way will terrify you because I chose the latter, too. And it will keep you from doing it. It kept me from doing it for two years! Trust me, you'll just only prolong the agony. 

When you finally freed yourself from that ride, it feels like you release all the heavy burden you've been carrying inside your heart for a long time. It will be replaced by fresh air and fresh start. 

Start the new season of your life by loving God and loving yourself. 

Be strong all throughout your journey. I'm just here, cheering for you. If you need someone to talk to, you can talk to me in wherever platform. Connect with me...

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I will also share the link of the article I've read before that enlightened me:




So much love, 
Sweet ❤️

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  1. You are brave to share this to all of us. But really, number 2 and 7 suck the most for me.. if you are not in the same page spiritually with your partner, then you would just have all kinds of things to argue on. and it is just easy to find and point out the flaws..I pray that you will find that man that will give us an update on this post someday. If you know what I mean. :)

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    1. Yeah. It's really hard not to be in the same page with your partner especially spiritually. But I believe that God let me experience it for His purpose, to turn the test into testimony. :)
      Thank you for sharing your thoughts and for praying. I will surely share my love story authored by God soon. <3

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